PERSONAL: A SAPIOSEXUAL IN SEARCH OF SAPIOSEXUAL

 I'm not like anyone else you will meet on here, guaranteed. If I can keep you laughing all night you will owe me a second date, deal? Just like any person with eyesight, I know how to appreciate the aesthetics of a good looking woman. But I've never connected emotionally with looks. Sapiosexual in search of sapiosexual! If you don't know what this means and before you assume it is something perverted please check with google. It’s beautiful when you find someone that is in love with your mind. Someone that wants to undress your conscience and make love to your thoughts. Someone that wants to watch you slowly take down all the walls you’ve built up around your mind and let them inside. I am unapologetically attracted to the intelligence in others. It turns me on. If I’m going to be bold and bare naked, I need to be honest. My brain and my ego are warning me to edit and omit a few details, but my heart says lay it out there.The brain is the largest sex organ, and this explains why some people are turned on more by the insights of a person or their personality rather than their physical appearance. They are more stimulated or challenged by the way another person thinks. They are basically in love with the mind. Sapiosexuals know that relationships are more fulfilling when something more than physical attraction is shared. Intelligence is a substance that does not go away and it can be shared forever. If that is not attractive, I don’t know what is…Save the pretty face for somebody else, just give me them brains .It is just difficult to find people of the same wavelength. I find conversations enriched somehow when I learn about something that I didn't know before. Have you ever been in lust or in love with someone’s mind? I flirted with her mind and she danced inside of mine. I love talking about the poetry of Pablo Neruda,movies. stocks, love, and sex and sacrifice. Conversation to me is the ultimate aphrodisiac. It is a dress rehearsal; conversation is foreplay and a window inside our hearts and our lovers. We start to fall in love with the unexpected pause, the short intermission before the plot unfolds. Personal narratives are worthy of being shared. It gives relationships meaning and context.

I needed to get inside your heads and discover what made your neural pathways different than mine. When I was convinced that your temporal lobes could handle the trek inside my cerebral jungle gym, I let them slide in. I was introduced to a Japanese word, “YUGEN.” It is pronounced, yoo-gehn, which is an awareness of the universe that can trigger emotional responses that are too deep and mysterious for words.

Wouldn’t each of us like to have that kind of passionate experience? “Too deep for words.” As I quietly searched for this elevated and mystical experience, I became aware of how powerful it is to be fearlessly open and curious about another person’s mind. The effect is magical.When the brain is alive and working hard, the entire body is fed and primed for pleasure. Imagine sitting on one of those expensive massage chairs and getting kissed simultaneously. Our brains crave an above average level of stimulation and novelty.

If one were to gather all of my ex's together they would see stark differences in personality, looks and interests. One thing they all have in common is their intellect. Some were more in touch with their emotional IQ and some not at all. In the end, they were all so smart and talented in their own ways. The more someone knows than me, the more likely I am to love them.

Chemistry isn’t compatibility. Chemistry is when you physically click together, regardless of how good or bad you are for one another. Compatibility is generally sharing the same values and balancing each other out. That can occur without chemistry.The biggest aphrodisiac in the world is someone who likes you and isn’t afraid to show it.

Ideally I'm looking for my last first date! I'm putting in a serious effort to find the one I want to spend the rest of my life with.In the meantime I am enjoying my life. I hope you are the type that can appreciate and understand this! I own my own home in a great neighborhood, car, etc.. Stable, working. I love to travel when I can. I need someone that will inspire me! Someone that can reciprocate - will focus on making a relationship work, rather than me me me... (I will focus on you you you!)