PERSONAL: FINDING THIS TYPE OF WOMAN

When you find that type of woman –  you never let her go. I am looking for a woman who makes me smile just by thinking of her. Not just when I talk to her, or when I am with her, or when I come across a photo of her online – but I am simply think of her (which is often) or see something that reminds me of her. I smile not just because of who she is, but what she stands for. Happiness, excitement, hope, and possibilities for the future.This type of woman makes you realize why it never worked out with anyone else.

We all have a past. We have all experienced heartbreak, we have broken up with others and had them break up with us. We have laughed and cried and had to move on from relationships we may have never thought would end – but when a woman who is truly right for you comes into your life, she will open your eyes to things you may not have realized were lacking in previous relationships.

The type of woman who loves everything about you that the wrong women took for granted.Not everyone will appreciate your kindness, your giving nature, or your selflessness.The fact is that some people just will not appreciate you for you – but the right person will.

The type of woman who respects those who are important to you.I always remember my parents saying when I was growing up – “when you marry someone, you don’t just marry them – you marry their whole family.” While this is more true in some situations than others, more than likely you will be around your partner’s family during holidays or special occasions at the very least – far more frequently at the most. While we cannot be expected to like every person we come in contact with, showing respect and courtesy to each other’s families, friends, and anyone important in lives is essential to making everyone happy in the long term.

Dating has become so casual today that people are all about just living in the moment. Hooking up, taking things a day at a time, whatever happens happens. While this is all well and good for awhile or in younger ages, eventually most people will reach a point where they wonder exactly what they’ve been doing this whole time. While I don’t think any experience is a waste of time, per-say, I do think our time is better used building something that has the potential to last in the long term.

Perhaps one of the most important points of all – it doesn’t matter how attracted we will be to  each other or how well we will get along, if we view the world from completely opposite ends of the spectrum, finding synergy within our relationship will be a constant challenge. For example, do you place the same importance on family? I have recently really began to understand the importance of being with someone who perhaps there was a similar upbringing, or at least an instilling of values as what you had. There is a big difference between making compromises for someone and having to change your entire view of the world. One can work out, the other likely cannot.

Every single person reading this has a different image in their head of what happiness looks like. We all have different pasts, experiences, upbringings, and backgrounds. We are from different parts of the world and hold different ideals and expectations. But, we do all have one thing in common: We want to be happy.

Regardless of any mental checklist we may define in our heads, regardless of where someone is from or what social class they are a member of, the most important thing we can ever ask for is that we are simply with someone who makes us happy. When two people find and feel this way about each other, I truly believe they will find a way to make things work. They will overcome the hard times and celebrate the good times. They will work through challenges together and come out the other side smiling bigger and stronger than before – because that’s what teams do.


The smell of her hair, the taste of her mouth, the feeling of her skin seemed to have got inside of me,She had become a physical necessity.If you’re ever lucky enough to find a girl who is a hopeless romantic with a dirty mind, you should hold onto that. Because she’ll be yours at two in the morning and at two in the afternoon the following day. She’ll kiss you where it hurts and until it hurts. And that’s important. Someone who not only knows how to turn you on but also knows how to treat you right is someone worth a little something…and a little more than usual. When I do find this type of woman,  I will make sure I will  hold on to her. I won’t have to worry about losing her, because she will be holding on to me, too.









I am really good at starting conversations and keeping them going. That being said, I’m really tired of going on dates and not feeling like there’s no give and take. I’m tired of asking all the fun questions! And I’m so sick of the standard “date” questions. It’s really, REALLY attractive when people ask well thought out questions that at least give the illusion that they want to know me better. And I mean REALLY know me. Not just know where I went to college and what I do for a living.. 

So here ya go. 30 questions I will bust out on you  on our date 


1. Who inspires you? Who do you aspire to be like?

2. What was the last book you read without skipping through anything?

3. What is the weirdest scar you have and how did you get it?

4. What is the most random thing you’ve ever watched all the way through on Netflix?

5. If you could trade lives with one person for an entire day who would it be and why?

6. Do you believe in ghosts?

7. Shark diving, bungee jumping, or sky diving?

8. Which would be harder for you to give up: coffee or alcohol?

9. How did you meet your best friend?

10. Do you have a sweet tooth or a savory tooth?

11. What is something you’ve always wanted to try but have been too scared to?

12. What accomplishments are you most proud of?

13. If you were going to go to the movies alone, what would be the perfect film for you to watch by yourself?

14. What is your favorite Wikipedia article? (Shuddup. Everyone has one.)

15. What is your favorite physical attribute about yourself?

16. Tell me about the best vacation you’ve ever taken.

17. Where is your favorite place to go on a weekday afternoon when you have no plans or obligations?

18. What is one of the weirdest things you used to do as a teenager?

19. Gin, vodka, or tequila?

20. What drives you to do what you do? What motivates you?

21. In your opinion, what is the best Disney movie to come out since Disney’s Golden Age?

22. What kind of phone was your first cell phone?

23. What did you love most about the place you grew up? What about it did you love the least?

24. What trajectory are you hoping to push yourself onto? Where do you want to head?

25. What is your most bizarre talent?

26. Is there a documentary or book that really changed the way you thought about something?

27. What are three albums (soundtracks or compilations don’t count) that really define you or have shaped you as a person?

28. Who was someone you really looked up to when you were little — someone you considered to be a mentor?

29. What’s your favorite cheesy pick-up line? Have you ever used it for real?

30. Who is a character from a TV show or a book that you’ve always resonated with?

31. Can I get you another drink?