DATING: WHY MEN ARE SO ANGRY ONLINE

Traditional courting norms, it is usually men who do the asking and women usually do the selecting. Now man can ask 50 woman online.And why bother to ask them out in all different ways? 

Bombarded by all these "admirers," many women feel overwhelmed and leave scores of messages unreturned. One okCupid experiment for which he set up five fake male and five fake female profiles. After a week, all of the women had received at least one message, the most attractive women had received hundreds, but several of the men remained un-contacted. This kind of rejection, day after day, can foment a kind of deep resentment among the male daters.


Listen...men, spend all their hours spent browsing photos, writing love notes, and hitting send aren’t “paying off. Who wants to expend all of that emotional energy only to get kicked in the metaphorical nuts by that empty inbox every time you log in?  There’s nothing quite so frustrating when you put all of that effort into your profile and start sending out all of those messages… and get thunderous silence in return.