PERSONAL: EVERY ROMANCE TURNS INTO A NEGOTIATION

I'd been around the block enough to know that sooner or later every romance turns into a negotiation. It's a matter of give and take. Give too little and you breed resentments, take too little and you start feeling used. How does a candlelight dinner stack up against changing the oil in her car? It is not your job to rearrange your whole life for someone you love when they won’t even try or give you a sign of their love in return. Love is proved by two people, not one. God might bring the right person into your life, but he can’t force them to meet you half way. He can only plant a whisper in their heart and a vision in their mind of a life they could have, if they have the courage to believe that there are no such things as coincidences.


Maybe that's what love is. Having someone who guides you through different experiences, coaxes you to try news things but still makes you feel safe.There is nothing more rare, nor more beautiful, than a woman being unapologetically herself; comfortable in her perfect imperfection. To me, that is the true essence of beauty.My dear, if heaven is truly a place, then it is situated in your heart, that special place, that was reserved for me.The state of sharing a deep bond with a lover initiates changes in you, going far beyond the plain gift of what happens when you're together. Seeing that effect on myself every day, even during the times I was alone, I wanted to put a name to this special state when the loved one is not even near but still changes everything inside and around me, and I came up with these few words – having been granted the authorization to wait!


Let us find someone who will never break our heart, who will always be there for us, who will make us happy all the time, who will respect, love and cherish us in everything, and we can't go far in the search because such personality is within us, not in the world we are living now! i know there are thousands  of woman out there who are looking for someone like me, why should I get upset with those who doesn't deserve me and my love? When I give, it does not come with strings. I’m not keeping track of what you owe me. When I give, I choose to do so without ulterior motives. I give because I know what it’s like to be without. To long for and be ignored; to speak and not be heard; to care for and have nothing returned. When I give it’s because I know the value in what I have in my heart. And I refuse to let the world stop me from sharing that, But when things start being taken for granted, When you no longer appreciate my sincerity, I won’t switch, I won’t get angry, and I won’t be spiteful. I’ll just get smart, and change your role in my life. Because when I give, I’m all in. But when I’m done, there’s no turning back.