COMMITMENT/DATING/LOVE: YOU ARE SINGLE BECAUSE OF YOU

You are single…you want to be. Yes, just that simple. EVERYONE has the exact love/relationship/dating life that they want. So turn that accusing finger right around to your self because women, your daddy, the economy…none of those people or things are to blame.

I think all people, ALL people, who are looking for something more, who are in search for a significant other or who just feel like, “when’s my time to meet the one?” Should take a minute and assess what they have been doing, what they could do better and what they’re not willing to do to find someone to spend their life with…it may surprise you what you come up with when you stop playing the blame game with your love life.

In the end, be the change you want to see. If you want a guy or girl to stop treating you like you don’t matter, than you’ve got to know you’re better than that. If you keep finding people who you think are with you for superficial reasons then you’ve got to seek a deeper connection than “I thought they were hot in the bar.” We’ve all be hurt, come back from a break up, dealt with a liar/cheater, picked the wrong person, felt wronged, felt hurt and Lord knows felt confused. You’re not the only one, get past that, save the pity party and get out there and live the answers. Seriously, what are you waiting for?

So many woman think they can outsmart getting hurt Even thought I get hurt from taking chances...I also had  the time of my life and so many woman never had the time of their life,,never fall in love and my question to them..., what are you waiting for?Getting hurt is not the same as being weak.It seems to me that if you are going to lose in love, or in anything else, the only thing that makes the loss bearable and honorable is having given it everything you’ve got