PERSONAL/LETTER: I AM LOVE

Hi,

You don’t know me, but you have met me. My name is LOVE AKA Alex.

You have met me several times in your life but you have never really recognized me.

Somewhere along the lines you have created a distorted version of who and  what I really am so I am writing this letter to clarify a few misconceptions you have about me.

Now, I realize that  this letter may stir up some emotions for you, it may even stir up some anger and resentment for you.

And that’s ok.  Because the only way for you to know me, to really know me, is to understand who and what I really am.

You see I am an experience. The greatest experience in the world. I am happiness, fulfillment, honesty, respect and integrity all rolled into one. I am the greatest experience you will ever have in your life.

You can not buy me and you can not learn about me. You have to experience me.  You can read about me and hear someone else talk about me but you will never truly know me until you experience me

The problem is you don’t know how to experience me because you keep looking for me as if I am a thing that can be found.

In your quest to find love you fail to understand that I am not a mystical thing that runs around the planet eluding the masses.

I do not hide in trees or live under rocks. You don’t have to find me. I am already there.

I am always around you, just like the air you breathe. But you fail to see me because you are too busy on your quest to find me.

You don’t have to search for me, you simply have to know I am always there and once you know this you simply have to open your mind and your heart and allow me in.

The reason you can not see me is because you don’t understand who you are. You keep thinking that if you had me your life would be better and you would be more complete. But that is a lie. You are already whole and you are already everything you need to be the perfect expression of who you really are.

For you see I am like money. I simply make you more of what you are. If you are a warm and generous person you will become even warmer and more generous.

However, if you are insecure and jealous, my presence will only intensify those experiences because you feel you are undeserving of me. And as a result you will make it impossible for me to exist in your life.

If you do not feel I exist or if you do not feel you deserve me you will do everything in your power to keep me away from you.

You will continue to blame those who may have hurt you. You will continue to make excuses for why it is ok for a man to treat you in a way that is less than you deserve. And as a result you will make it impossible for me to exist in your life.

For you see, I have an evil twin brother and his name is Fear. He is stronger than I am.  He is the reason you can not recognize and see me. Because Fear knows how to play with your mind and He certainly knows how to manipulate your emotions.

Fear knows how to make you see and think things which are not really true. He is a master at manipulation.

You may not be able to recognize Fear. But you know when He is around.

He makes you afraid, He makes you stay in your comfort zone. He makes you do things which you know you shouldn’t do.

When you are presented with an opportunity to get to know me or come closer to me He will do everything in her power to keep you away.

And He will masterfully make you believe it is someone or something else’s fault.

Fear will cause you to make excuses when a guy continually lies and disrespects you. He will make you rationalize and justify why you should stay in an unhappy relationship.

He will make you say things like:

“But I love him”

“He Really loves me, he just doesn’t know it”

“I know things will get better”

“It’s not that bad, I can live with it”

Fear will keep you from standing up for yourself, owning your Power and showing the world you are ready for Love. Fear will do everything He can to keep you down.

And He is sneaky too. For you see, when a man is not being and acting like the true partner you know you deserve, it is fear that will make you stay. He will cause you to rationalize and justify why you should stay with a man who is treating you like a human doormat. And Fear will tell you that it is Love that makes you stay.

Fear also makes you doubt if I really exist. Yes, you may not have ever experienced me yet, but that does not mean I don’t exist.

I do exist and I am always around. There is evidence of me everywhere. You simply have to start focusing on me and stop focusing on Fear.

But the biggest thing you have to do to notice me is to love yourself. Because the true Power  in life, the greatest love of all is the love you have for yourself.

When you Love yourself, you don’t allow others to treat you in any other way than the way you deserve. When you love yourself you no longer tolerate and make excuses for those guys who act like boys and treat you like an object.

No matter how afraid you Are, no matter what your past is like and no matter how much your heart has been broken in the past, you can experience me again.

But in life, we have the ability to choose. In every moment we get to decide if we are going to choose.

Most of the time we don’t’ even realize it. That is how good fear is. He makes it difficult to see what is right in front of you.

Because Fear is afraid.He knows that if you know the truth. If you know how to stand in your Power and make choices in decisions which bring more Love into your life, Hhe disappears.

Because in the presence of Love and Power there is no fear.


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