Sunday, March 10, 2013

THOUGHTS: I AM A ALPHA MALE

Men, especially if white and educated, get the majority of perks in the world. They get the best jobs. They occupy the top of pretty much every occupational field, fields of women’s interests included (fashion, beauty, cooking, media). They make the most money. They’re more implicitly trusted in matters of business. They get to have sex with tons of people and receive very little judgment for it. They get to marry women young enough to be their daughters and have kids at age 70. They get to be funny, outrageous, outspoken, and wild, and people just chuckle affectionately.

That describes alpha men, who comprise less than 1 to 3 percent of men in North America. Betas comprise 80% of American men.

I’m a man. I’m white, and I’m educated. I have a good job and high earning power. I have no arrest or criminal record. I came from a good family, my dad is retired doctor ..my mom a retired nurse and I have two sister who are doctor.I have my own home...nice car, attractive and in great health.

I’m a brick in the foundation of that power structure describing above. If  I’m a super alpha, and  by today’s standards, my lifetime partner count is high...and those were the woman who i had sex with...there is equal number of woman i turn down.

Before I got married I spent a few months of my life hovering between beta and omega. Being “nice”. I got even less power and authority, and fewer perks. Most women wouldn’t even give me the time of day long enough to say LJBF. In return for my “nice” behavior, I was more miserable, more alone, and more confused and frustrated.

When you look at all these profile you see hordes of unmarried professional women who thought they could put off marriage and families until their 30s, having devoted their 20s to education, establishing careers and playing the field.'I'm horrified by the number of gorgeous, independent and successful women my age who can't meet a decent man", but it's all their fault. They have this impression that they can have it all. They can have the career, travel the world...have this carefree lifestyle and then, at the snap of their fingers, because they are so fabulous, find a man. but they don't realize they have to  competing with women who are much younger and in various ways more attractive. ''They've swallowed the L'Oreal line: 'Because you're worth it!' There's a real sense of entitlement.''

Woman are determined to meet only men who are tall, attractive, wealthy and well educated. They want the alpha males. and during their 20s and early 30s, women compete for the most highly desirable men, the Mr Bigs. Many will readily share a bed with the sporty, attractive, confident men, and that is fine.

I am a alpha male.. and let me tell you from experience...most attractive, successful men can take their pick from women their own age or younger women who are happy to settle early. I did already..even thought it end up in divorse. My wife was attractive, young resident when I met her,...BUT she didn't have heart...she didn't care about me....and i won't make that mistake again

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