DATING: WHY ME?..WHY DID YOU PICK ME?

When it comes to a long-term romantic commitment there are two times in a man’s life: ready and not ready.  Carrie Bradshaw on the now cult classic “Sex and the City” was on to something she they wrote that men are like taxis driving around with their lights off. Sometimes they’ll pick up someone if they feel like it—sometimes a lot of people—but generally speaking, they’re unavailable. Then suddenly, as if men had their own ticking biological clock, a man realizes that he’s ready for the next stage of his life: settling down. His available-for-commitment light flicks on, and the next woman who jumps in the backseat stays for the ride of a lifetime; she meets the “One” and he meets his nuptials.