Did you know that positive thinking, coupled with positive action and expectation, are the keys to getting what you want in life? It is not enough just to think positively, as most self-professed experts will have you believe. You must start with the foundation of thinking positive thoughts in order for your outcome to be a positive one, but you must go to the next step of taking positive action, and believe that your positive action will produce the expected positive results.
Now you are wondering what positive thinking and positive action has to do with getting the kind of love you want from your man. The answer? Everything. Men are really easy to please, if you understand their needs and exactly how to satisfy them. Yes, all men have plenty of love to give, if you know how to tear down the walls around their hearts.
Today, I will give you some of the tools you can use to get the kind of love you deserve. Mind you that I have boiled down all the elements of what it takes to get the love you deserve into just four simple keys. Since there is not enough time here and blogs are certainly not meant to be books, I will just make these four keys short and sweet. Here they are:
Warm and respectful communication – I could have simply said communication, and left it at that, but I feel it is very important to qualify communication, so that you are certain of the kind of communication that will get you the positive results you want.
Warm communication is like hot chocolate on a cold winter morning. It is uplifting and makes you feel good all over. That is exactly how the way you talk to your man ought to make him feel. If you talk to him with the kind of derogatory language that a lot of people use in their relationships, then you will get the same old results most people get, which is the kind of love that is always on the verge of breaking up. Use language that is kind, considerate, uplifting and you will get the same back with love as the icing on your love cake.
Kind and thoughtful acts - I call these acts of love. If you expect love from your man, you must act in kind and thoughtful ways. How many times have you gone out of your way to do something for your guy without him asking? Have you taken care of an important chore that he hasn’t been able to get to, without his requesting you to do him a favor? Surprise him with gifts when nothing special is happening, his birthday, your anniversary, or special holidays. Sometimes it is not what you do for him directly. It could be something you do for a member of his family. Blood is thicker than water, and when you do something that positively impacts one of his loved ones, you have also positively impacted your guy as well. Sounds like an ancient Chinese philosophy, but it is not. It is a universal principle.
Never Nag – Nagging is one of those areas in a relationship where women are not sure when they have slipped into the proverbial black hole. Let me quickly give you some pointers on what it means to nag. You are nagging when you complain constantly about what your guy should have done but did not do, or what he repeatedly does that is making you sick. You are nagging when you constantly yell when you are dissatisfied or disappointed by how your guy has handled or failed to handle an issue your expected him to take care of differently. The point is not that you should not be dissatisfied or disappointed when your guy is not rowing his share of the boat. But the way you express your discontent is what makes the difference between a nag and someone that can effectively get her point across.
Be affectionate – Shower your guy with loves of hugs and kisses. Men, like women, enjoy the attention they get when their woman initiates affection. Do it often, but do not smother him with it. BIG ONE HERE...Wear that short dress with no underwear
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