Seduction, manipulation and the like are definitely within the realm of the feminine. As is a genuine enjoyment of the modern western mating ritual and everything that it entails. I’m partial to more intellectual pursuits myself and my threshold for bullshit is low. Outsmarting female psychology in an attempt to get laid is BORING, mind numbing, time consuming drudgery. It’s a necessary evil unfortunately, but I could definitely do without it, and I don’t understand how anybody except females (bless their emotional, social, conformist little hearts) actually take any enjoyment out of it.
But it’s the emotional neediness (you know, the uncompromising need to feel desired by your female overlord, as if it actually matters how you get your dick wet, the feelings of inadequacy for straying from the conventional path, and the thinly veiled ego stroking, even when your audience is a bunch of other dudes on the internet!) on display here that takes the cake. Not only is it extremely feminine, it’s fucking beta.
The tricky-est stage of the process of seduction is the part when you have just had sex with a woman for the first time and her hindbrain is telling her forebrain, “Now he owes you, make sure you get paid. Don’t let him get away without paying.” Of course, the hindbrain cannot say exactly what she is owed. This is what makes this part tricky. She does not know and cannot say what she is owed either. The limits of your debt are not defined, at least by logic or even sanity.
Here in America, the entitlement of the women is so high that there is always a cost to sex in one form or another (time, effort, your part of the date, a portion of her part, drama, etc) even for guys who have learned game. Feminized females have are going to be demanding regardless of your level of game simply because their egos are tied to what they think they can get from a man, and society has brainwashed them into thinking they can get the world.
And for guys learning game, there are the additional costs involving mental energy (learning), personality transformation, and blow-outs. Women in the US (granted there are exceptions, but we are talking in aggregate terms) look to men for either excitement or resources. “Work” is simply out of the equation, or a modicum of sacrifice is exhibited as a token gesture and is short lived. So if you were to apply the paradigm you describe to American (or Australian or British) female, you’d invariably have to “kick her out of your life for doing lousy work”.
So again, not sure where you’re from but here in the States, there’s *always* a cost. Even if you’re Charlie Sheen.
To those who said that going to professionala prostitutes is like going to restaurants:
You must find a woman who likes cooking and does so good enough, so that you dont want to attend restaurants more than a few times a year. And if she wants restaurants and doesn’t want to cook, let her pay for it.
And you must mercilessly ignore the rest like the parasites they are.
Similary you must find a women who will do any sexual thing you desire, so that you dont need to go to prostitutes who will do the thing your girl won’t do for you. If you cannot find such a women you need to level up your Game.
Every women secretly wants to be a whore for her Master.
The best point made here was that it only raises the Sexual Market Value of “regular women” when special interest groups pretend that mercenaries are a separate type of woman that one shouldn’t touch without stigma (or outrageous laws banning solicitation, sexbots, foreign brides, etc).
In reality we’re talking about the same women here (the 9s and 10s – anyone who would pay for an 8 or lower is a Gamma). What’s happening is that the same women have two different price structures: low for guys who obviously wouldn’t have the time or interest to date them and high for guys who look like they’re ready to invest a lot of time and effort into a relationship including Marriage 2.0.
Most opposition to paying a certain low price for a certain action with the same woman other men ask to marry them is that, if this were acceptable in US society (and it basically is outside the media and politically correct blogs), the value of a particular woman’s temporary appearance + sex in “romantic relationships” will necessarily go down which would drastically reduce the artificially inflated Sexual Market Value of American women.
Obviously, bans on sexbots, foreign brides and “solicitation” would try to prop that value back up.
Guys who read this basically “get it” that one has to drastically reduce the artificially inflated market value.
But, because of an ingrained anti-male culture that came from Victorian England, many American and British males don’t “get it” that societies outside the USA can be more male-friendly precisely because every woman knows the value of her appearance is set at commodity prices and should be.
Once you imply that the value of sex with a co-ed is set at an almost unattainable level, as in “only a super Alpha could get her,” you’re unnecessarily and artificially raising her value and that of her friends.
Remember that any given 10 secretly has two price structures, the higher one for the naive socon and fem-friendly fools who believe the nonsense that “only a Super Alpha could get her”. The lower price is for those who know her rent is due.
The Beta is the man who’s invested in a relationship and doesn’t know his girlfriend isn’t getting all her money from her real daddy.
I promise you that when you turn 37-40+, or look it, that your ability to pull the 18 year olds will all but vanish. Not even George Clooney can stem the march of time.
Older men do not have the time to waste fucking around in a bar. We do not have the time to go run game, at 2 am, because we have a life and we have things to do. We do not have the time to go clubbing from 11 to 2, then head back to her place with her friends and hang out until the early hours of the morning.
Our time is valuable. It has a monetary price tag attached to it, and we know we are going to die one day and that this time of ours is worth a great deal of money.
Thus, [b]there is no such thing as getting loving sex from any women free of charge[/b]. There never was and never is. No sex is free, my friend. Never was.
You spend time running game. That costs time and money.
Hours X Your Hourly Rate = Cost
You stay up to 5am and cannot work the next day. That costs time and money.
You are hungover. That costs time and money.
You buy drinks, you buy clothes, you peacock. That costs money.
You did not get enough sleep (yes, you cannot stay up all night at 50 as you could when you were 30 years old). That costs time and money.
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