THOUGHTS: WHEN YOU LOOK AT HER

When you see someone who takes your breath away...what has really happen? has anything changed the moment you see that person? Where you not still in the bookstore holding your books, or in the coffee shop holding your coffee? Nothing has changed except that you've been triggered. You don't have to do anything as nervousness and desire and momentarily engulf your worldview. Nothing is happening except what is happening in your mind. Thoughts like...
-She HOT
-I'm not handsome enough for her
-I'm not going to put myself in a place to be rejected

All this happen in spilt second. The mind get int a whirlwind. It can go to past experience and say this is what's going to happen now. It can travel to the future and play out all sorts of scenarios. The mind will do anything except be with the reality of what is, which is simply the arising of attraction. When you heart is pounding, and you've suddenly lost the ability to speak, what can you do? What is actually at stake here? You were fine before the sighting of the woman who triggered the feelings, and you will be fine afterwards. View the desire that is arising as a beautiful thing----you are alive. The only thing that has happened is that desire has arisen and give birth to a series of thoughts in your mind. Otherwise, things are exactly the same, because nothing has actually happened outside your own perceptions. On a spiritual level, you are meeting another manifestation of creation, another chip of consciousness.