FROM A FAN-VALIDATION GOES BOTH WAYS..THROUGH PUSSY AND COCK

Someone wrote to me: the following:

You think love is sex and in fact define love via sex. You see this is why you want sex unconditionally. Sex makes you feel good and gives you a euphoria. It is the one thing that a woman can provide that does not fully hurt you but can leave you empty till you find the next fill.


Deep inside you know there is a love available to you. Deeper than this “sex love” you worship so unconditionally and want unconditionally. You adore the female body for this temple gives unconditional enjoyment but you also despise it for there is something so beautiful that cannot be seen by the naked eye: A HEART.


A heart could love you and at the same time turn coldly against you. A body has no true feeling but could easily be swayed into showing affection by a touch again and again.


This woman fail to understand that validation goes both ways....men find validation through pussy and woman find validation through dick. Most woman use men for validation. i think that is the purpose of the whole interacting thing on a basic biological level.

there's a saying:
women attract high status males by showing signs of fertility.
men attract fertile women by showing signs of status.

Most woman would the following... "Guys used me for sex". Yes i understand women enjoy sex as much as men if not more, but they enjoy validatitng sex. Women to go bars to be validated and 'blessed' by the alpha of the group. They are going there to feel valid, as if they matter, because if they didnt have the validation of a man they would not be whole and would start having cats and kntting. and whats important to understand is they are not going there to actively see it by asking the alpha male "do you validate me", what they are doing is getting as sexy as they can so that the man goes up and validates on his own.

They had validation their whole lives from the most important man in theri lives (their father) but as he get out of status range and sexual maturity and the little girl gets into maturity, she needs validation from a man that is in a higher status range in order to feel anything. she needs his acknowledgement and is going to get it through sexual communication.

Simply put. men rise in status. and give that validation to women who they feel they want to have. but if you give it away too easy the women wil lose interest as giving up is not the trait of an alpha. the same thing applies for women who give it up too easy to men. pussy, that is.

People here underestimate the human need for VALIDATION. It’s why men go through the hassle of learning game rather than just bi-weekly visits to hookers.

It is a fundamental need of humans, male and female, to be desired by other humans of their own free will. Sexbots will never provide that. The knowledge that you have ‘won’ a person over, turned their heart towards you is more important than you realize.