LOVE: REASON WHY I HAVEN'T FOUND THE ONE

10 reasons why I can't STILL find my soulmate

I may not believe in destiny or fate but, for some odd reason, I believe in finding my better half or my soulmate. For years, i’ve been trying to find one through the method of “collect and select”. Sad to say, I can’t still find him. I know that this may not be the proper time yet to find him and be my husband but, I would gladly meet and entertain him any time. I know that you may not really know it at first sight but, you’ll feel it when you actually met him. I’m such a hopeless romantic. Needless to say, i’ve been thinking of any reasons if I can’t find him and I’ll just move on with my life without any man at my side. I came up with  10 reasons on why I can’t find my dearest soulmate.

10. He/she may have already died or killed himself/herself.

 Think about it. He/She may have met an unfortunate accident before we actually meet them. Sad to say, this can happen. He/she might have died before birth or after birth. In a more negative point of view, he/she may have killed himself/herself, believing that there’s no one else in the world that would love them or care for them.

On the side note, may their souls rest in peace.

9. He/She may have been with the wrong person all along.

This is quite inevitable. Almost everyone has experienced this. We think that we found the right person yet, he/she isn’t the ONE we’ve been waiting for all our lives. Also, he/she might have been forced into an arranged marriage/marriage out of convenience. Well, that can certainly happen as well.

8. He might be a priest right now or someone who can’t marry due to his/her duties.

No doubt about it. I know that I may be going to hell for this but, sometimes, I think that there are priests that may be our soulmates. However, they chose to be with God. there’s nothing wrong about it, i guess.

7. He/She forgets about love due to his/her career/studies/obligation.

Yes. There are a lot of people like that. They forget about the aspect of love due to their love for their career and such. They chose to be loyal on what they do in life. This isn’t really selfish at all if you’re doing it for mankind. Needless to say, it’s still a loss for love and a gain for humanity.

6. He/She may be gay or a tomboy.

 Sometimes, this happens too. There’s nothing with it. We could only accept them as they are right now. This may sound cliche but, if there are happy with their lives right now, we could only be happy for them as well. He/She may find their love.

5. He/She might really love someone else more than you.

This is harder to accept than anything else in the world. :(

4. He/She might be in a coma or have a physical/mental sickness right now.

This could also happen as well as if, time has stopped for them in this world. There’s nothing wrong with this. Just be patient, okay.

On the side note, let’s pray for them to get well soon.

3. He/She’s still in the process of finding you.

Hey! Out of 7 billion people in this world, almost 3.5 billion people can be your soulmate. He/She may still be a child or already an older man/woman. Love has no age or boundaries as well so, live with it! It’s hard to find you, you know.

2. He/She’s still trying to accept you.

Believe me. This is harder than we thought it could be. We may not believe that he/she is our actual soulmate. He/She may be far from our ideal man/woman or we’re far from his/her ideal man/woman. Well, he/she may or may not accept you.

1. We’re just too blind.

Let’s not forget that we have our own faults as well. Sometimes, we’re just too blind. Our soulmate may already be infront of you yet, we ignore them because we can’t accept the fact that he/she’s our soulmate. He/she may be the person who got friendzoned by you. We might be the one who ruined the chance of finding our soulmate. Sometimes, we’re just too insensitive, i guess. So, Be careful, ne?  Whatever decision you’ll make in your life might lose our chance on finding the ONE.