In all seriousness though, I am sorry to say that once you actually do cross over to the dark side of slutdom, it’s near impossible to go back. The fact is, the more people that you want to have sex with, the more people you will continue to want to have sex with- laws of nature.
How do I know this to be true? From experience. I meet new women all the time, and if I set my mind to it, I usually end up sleeping with them. I don’t do this to “add them to my collection” or put another “notch in my belt.” I threw out the belt quite some time ago and, to be honest, have no idea how many holes I put in it...just being honest. And my intention with all these woman was to settle down but for one reason or another...it didn't work out that way.
I do this for two reasons. One: I like to have sex. Two: I do know exactly what I am looking for in a woman, the fastest way for me to find out if a woman I just met may potentially be wife material is to fuck them. Why put up with weeks or even months of chasing or celibate dating to find out that the person’s favorite position is the dead fish? Bang’em after the first or second date and you’ll have your answer right there and then- simple.
One thing that I came to realize, however, is that it’s not easy to find someone that you actually click with. Great, right? Just keep on fucking randoms until you do- well, it turns out that sex is addicting.
Sleeping with new people is addicting. You may find the love of your life and be happy with them for years. But then, sooner or later, you will start to think about all those thighs you haven’t had the pleasure of exploring, all those bodies you never experienced, and all those sexual personalities you never got a chance to fuse with for a short blissful instance.
Polygamy is part of human nature. Most people are able to handle it, but they’ve been drinking from a limited number of cups. If you’ve only had wine from Napa, then you’ll be happy with Napa for the rest of your life; taste wine from all over the world, on the other hand, and you will continue to crave wine from different vineyards until the day you die.
Women spend far too much time trying to mold themselves into something they are not; something pure and smaller than themselves. They try to make themselves “girlfriend or wife” material. I knew a girl who told me that she had a low sex drive and can live without sex for long time. Guess what, within 3 weeks she had another dick inside of her. Who was she kidding? Me or herself? I know she is a slut, but she is in total denial. Sleeping with 4 guys in less than year...is a lot. I know the reason why she does it:
1-she get bored easily: she enjoy variety. There are so many different and ridiculously attractive guys out there, each with something to offer.
2-She is non-committal
3-She is a fan of physical satisfaction. She love feeling his mouth on her nipples, kissing her body, licking her everywhere. She want his hands on her hips, pulling her hair, or holding her close. Deep inside she love watching a man’s face when he climaxes
4-She has this curiosity factor. If he’s a good kisser, she wonder what he’s like in bed. If he looks good with his clothes on, she want to see what’s underneath. She fantasize about what he will do to her when we’re alone. She is like a young Samantha Jones in Sex In The City.
5-She judge the men she sleep with on appearance. It’s a very shallow way to live
6-She wants alpha child
Can I slut change is the question now:
Once a slut always a slut because she can still savours the taste of her past escapades in her mouth . The woman I mention about told me she changed because got hurt enough and suffered enough.
I don't think so.
My thoughts: The crushing forces of reality are no match for wishfully thinking snowflakes. Her pussy had taken 4 cocks in one year. If a snowflake decides she’s going to be a virgin again, so shall it be. The problems should be obvious. It’s not as if she can simply cast of the tremendous emotional baggage she has acquired of offering her pussy to men who, and rightly so, never in their wildest dreams would have considered her long-term material. Furthermore, she has an entire lifetime to account for that led to her being a slut. Waking up one day and vowing to be a slut no more just doesn’t cut it. People have a hard enough time changing even trivial habits, why should a woman who has poor impulse control to look back upon find it easy to not take cock anymore?
Once a slut, always a slut. As they age, their sexual market value drops precipitously, so her choices will be between not getting laid (because quality guys have better prospects) or just keep doing what they always have been doing (being sluts).
But Don’t guys like us fuck a lot of women? Unfortunately, for them, there is a very big difference: for a woman to get laid, all it takes is giving in. The guy makes all the moves. As a guy, though, you need to make an active effort. If you don’t do anything, you won’t get laid. As a consequence, it is a lot easier for a guy, once he decides to settle down, to keep his dick in his pants.
Is being a slut "bad"? Not at all unless of course people are getting hurt emotionally or physically (or being threatened to get hurt). "people" includes you as well.
We live in a world of many double standards between the two sexes, some of which make sense and can be defended. For example, it’s okay for an older man to date a younger woman, but not the other way around because a man’s value often rises with age while a woman’s does not. This is a double standard no doubt, but one that is backed up by biological reality.
Because of the stereotypes associated with being a slut. I'll list a few off the top of my head:
1. Sluts have no self respect
2. Sluts use sex to get what they want (money, alpha sperm)
3. Sluts use sex to avoid their own personal issues (usually 'daddy issues')
4. Sluts are hard to make friends with,
5. Sluts are not emotionally mature people
1. Sluts have no self respect
2. Sluts use sex to get what they want (money, alpha sperm)
3. Sluts use sex to avoid their own personal issues (usually 'daddy issues')
4. Sluts are hard to make friends with,
5. Sluts are not emotionally mature people
She’s a slut because she needs to feel wanted. Desired. Sexual. She needs to remind herself that she can. That there are other men out there. But she doesn’t want you to love her. To call. To treat her with any semblance of respect. She doesn’t respect herself because how can she?
She’ll fuck you, and you, and you – one after the other, filling up and filling up but never being filled for long enough. She’ll begin to pride herself on not being like the other girls. Of keeping you at a distance. Ignoring you once you’ve peeled off the condom and flung it in the trash or even fuck her without once she know you are clean.. She can’t love herself so she sure as hell couldn’t love your child. She’s a slut because none of you are the answer. She’ll be wet for you. Turned on as all hell. You might even make her come. But it won’t be from being inside her.
Nobody is saving her from herself.She doesn’t know, yet, that she needs to save herself.She’s a slut because it helps. It’s less about the act of fucking you, and more about what it does to her ego to get there. That she can control you. She’s in the driving seat of saying just the right amount of provocative. Master of making your pupils dilate in thrilled shock.
She’s not a bad person. She’s not a Madonna, nor is she a total whore. She has friends, and a job, and is liked and respected and popular enough. She commands attention because she’s so in control, so measured, so aware of the cracks she’ll let other people see. Most will be fooled by it. Most will marvel at her confidence and her “go for it” attitude. Concede that she must really have her shit together. But then there will be one or two who linger behind, say less, hold something back because they see it. They see that she’s playing make believe and doesn’t even recognize it herself. They don’t trust it, and they shouldn’t.
Sluts have cornered the market on low self-esteem. Being a slut is like Ford Motors in 1919—an assembly line cranking out the same product. The perpetual search for validation through giving up the pussy is how the whole vicious cycle of chronic low self-esteem continues. It’s like the little train that couldn’t get her shit together.
Studies have shown that sluts are suckers’ bets for LTRs or marriage. You want to marry or have a loving long-term relationship with a girl without an elevated risk that she’ll divorce you or cheat on you? Then you had better get good real fast at screening the sluts from the relatively chaste girls so that you can lavish your resources and commitment on the latter. The Social Pathologist has crunched the numbers, and the verdict is in: women with lots of past partners are more likely to divorce than women who didn’t take a self-empowering spin on the cock carousel.
Even “average” women with “only” five past lovers — women that few men would admit in public qualify as sluts — see an increase in odds of divorce to 70%. What man would want to screw his chances by marrying that? No wonder woman react so vehemently to accusations of sluttidue
Basically gentlemen, if you want to beat the sordid odds and enter a marriage with a less than 50% likelihood it will end in divorce, you need to date virgins or girls who have had only one partner before you. Good luck with that! Of course. The more cocks that have ravaged a woman, the less any one cock will mesmerize her. Sluts may have higher testosterone levels, leading them to cheat and, thus, to increase marital instability. Sluts may get bored faster with any one man. Sluts attract the sorts of men who themselves have no use for monogamous commitment. Sluts may just be fucked in the head.
Basically gentlemen, if you want to beat the sordid odds and enter a marriage with a less than 50% likelihood it will end in divorce, you need to date virgins or girls who have had only one partner before you. Good luck with that! Of course. The more cocks that have ravaged a woman, the less any one cock will mesmerize her. Sluts may have higher testosterone levels, leading them to cheat and, thus, to increase marital instability. Sluts may get bored faster with any one man. Sluts attract the sorts of men who themselves have no use for monogamous commitment. Sluts may just be fucked in the head.
Betas thinking that all they have to do is hone in on sluts for the easy kill are in for a rude surprise. Sluts want to be properly gamed by an alpha male just as much as good girls. The difference is that sluts will sleep with more alphas, and will jump into bed quicker with them, than will good girls. No girl wants to be labeled a slut (even if she co-opts the term for herself in a vain attempt to de-fang it), which is why women lie about their past number of partners. Women know, deep down, that being less slutty means better treatment from men
Once a woman has experienced that Alpha dominance, only another Alpha experience can delimit the previous experience. I told this to the woman I mention above.This is an example of the role conditionality plays in pair bonding. If a woman has had 10 prior lovers who’ve all amounted to beta experiences, an Alpha experience may be all it takes to make her loyal. On the other hand a woman with only one prior Alpha lover may be impossible to convince to be loyal to anyone she sees as a lesser experience. These are the Alpha Widows. In fact, I’d argue that most female initiated infidelity is a result of hypergamous impulse seeking to find its previous level. Women don’t trade down in experience, they are always perceptually trading up.
Men subconsciously judge women’s sluttiness for eminently practical reasons, just as women judge men on a host of alpha benchmarks for similarly practical reasons
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