Since my divorced about a few years ago, I have many girlfriends. Most of them lied to me and lie to themselves about wanting to be with a nice guy. They are not ready for nice guy because most of them are commitment phobic. They would date me for a little bit, and then and then go dated an assh*le immediately and regretted their choice and want to come back to me which I refused
You see..nice guy will want to settle down right away. If you go out with a nice guy...you future may as well already be set in stone. The nice guys are the "marriable" guys, and for most woman, they don't know if they even want to get married. Therefore, dating a good guy could lead me down a path they are not sure that they want to go on.
The common excuse given to me was that I was too boring. Alot of woman just can't resist a guy who keeps them guessing. They want someone less predictable. They want a little edge, so they would need a guy who is nice and edgy. The two are often not synonymous. They just not ready to commit to predictable yet. They love drama.
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