SPIRITUAL/ THOUGHTS: QUESTION: WHY CAN'T I MEET THE RIGHT WOMAN OR MAN?

Why can't I meet the right man or woman?


It implies that there is someone out there, maybe in Mongolia or somewhere, and if only you knew where he or she was, then you could pop over on the next flight.


But since metaphsically nothing is outside of us---everything we experience is a reflection of what's going on in our head---there's no point in flying to Mongolia if we're not already the perfect fit for our ideal partner. nd once we are ready, we needn't go anywhere because he or she will simply appear.


The truth is ...u have to ask yourself....why do u keep love at bay. Most of the answer is:

-I act needy
-I attract men, but then I start acting like a man, myself and so the leave
-I get jealous
-I get angry
-I'm controlling
-I'm desperate to have kid and men can feel it

-I"m not patience enough

Can you see my your great love isn't here yet?

It time to work. Time to do all the work, internally and externally that goes along with preparing yourself as the gift you really are ...not as an assortment set of fragmented emotions, unhealed neuroses and broken dreams. The most important thing to work on, always is the nature of our thoughts. Whenever we believe that a situation is lacking, we create more lack. Why? Because lack is our core belief, Believing your lack, you attarcat more lack. I lack love in my life is not a thought that invites a partner.

It can take a lot of years before you arrive at love's door with little no not baggeage. There might have been struggles galore making all the shifts, from neediness to self-confidence, controlling to surrendered, anxious to lighthearted, demanding to grateful, overreactive to nonreactive, critical to supportive, blaming to forgiving, not to mention flannel to lace., But once your arrive, you really arrive.

Experience teaches you how to make better choices.If unworthy opportunities are offered you, you'll know to give them the pass. Sometimes it;s the pain of love that transforms you into someone who has the courage to take it on.