PERSONAL: THE REASON WHY YOU ARE SINGLE

 At this point in my life, I’m ready for something serious and meaningful. I’m ready to settle down and commit to creating a great relationship. It really difficult to tell who' actually out there searching for a real relationship. If your wishy-washy, flakes and going to ghost me, don't reply to me.

There’s no question I’ve come to despise more  is the question you just asked me. It’s basically asking, “What’s your value and worth?” within the first time of meeting someone. I just don't think it matter. I just don't thing that is the best question to start off with a total stranger.  I am more than my job. What type of physician I am shouldn't matter as long as I am a kind, caring responsible individual? Right??? Would I not consider you a good candidate for a relationship because you are real estate lawyer instead of enternamaint lawyer or if you were  first grade teacher instead of sixth grade teacher?

Lately, I am meeting women who do not want a serious relationship. They just need a man to enjoy a few moments with and walk away from at will.If  you can't make any adjustment to our lifestyle.That is a sign of a woman not ready to take dating seriously.By and large, women always relinquish part of their freedom for them to be taken up by a man.A woman after a serious relationship will try to adjust to a man’s whims, or even pretend to, as she works to restore her independence within the relationship. If Never responds to calls or texts promptly that is another sign that she not interested

You're always one decision away from a totally different life. If you dig a bad boy, that’s your prerogative. But please stop complaining about never finding good guys while simultaneously continuing to date the same type of person over and over again! When an attractive woman keeps repeating she has abysmal luck dating, I… well, I don’t exactly sympathize

Single is no longer a lack of options — but a choice.Your perpetual dissatisfaction is paired with incredibly high standards and over-focusing on “Chemistry.Character is more important. If you think you “deserve” a certain kind of partner – and yet you’ve NEVER gotten him, you need to start considering another kind of partner.The key is in letting go of the image you’ve been holding onto.When Did Being “Too Nice” Become a Character Flaw?It’s terrible to realize that you confused excitement, passion, and anxiety for love, and then tried to build a life with a self-centered, impulsive person who made you feel agony, ecstasy and insecurity…. But who was never able to truly love you back.

You are single because of you, not because of the people you date.Single is no longer a lack of options — but a choice.Your perpetual dissatisfaction is paired with incredibly high standards and the illusion of infinite choice

The REAL Reason You’re Still Single:You don’t want the people who want you.The people you want don’t want you in return. You have a choice to find an amazing partner and create an amazing life – if you give up that IMAGE that you have of dating a men who was Just. Like. You.If you’re single, and never find anybody “good enough,” chances are that you do the this. If you ever wants to get married, it would probably make sense to start appreciating the 6s and 7’s and choose the one that shares the same values and can be your best friend for life.

If you only likes 9’s and 10’s… but those same men always a) prefer younger women or b) ultimately break her heart because they’re egotistical, selfish narcissists who only want younger women and aren’t ready to settle down… should you keep holding out for them? Wouldn’t it make much more sense to marry one of the devoted 7’s who think she’s the bee’s knees?Apparently not. Because that would be settling. And settling is bad. That is why you will remain single indefinitely

If you think you “deserve” a certain kind of partner – not just someone who is rich, hot, and brilliant, but a rich, hot, brilliant partner who STICKS AROUND – and yet you’ve NEVER gotten him, you need to start considering another kind of partner.The key is in letting go of the image you’ve been holding onto.By thinking you’re “better” than everyone who wants you, you’re eliminating the greatest source of love around – the person who wants you! And you may be surprised to find that you can be EXTREMELY happy with someone who doesn’t meet your preconceived image of your ideal mate.

So many woman are over-focusing on “Chemistry. They actually believe that ‘chemistry feeling’ is a reliable source of information as to whether someone is going to be a good long-term partner for them..Never prioritize chemistry over character.In fact, the exact opposite is often true: The people who are most likely to make you feel “chemistry”.are often the ones who are the most emotionally (or literally) dangerous for you to get involved with.Trust me: It’s terrible to realize that you confused excitement, passion, and anxiety for love, and then tried to build a life with a self-centered, impulsive person who made you feel agony, ecstasy and insecurity…. But who was never able to truly love you back.
For example: A mercurial, highly sexual, unpredictable woman will make your heart pound in a way that the loving, kind kindergarten teacher with a fondness for Dansco clogs will probably not. Likewise, a rakish, troubled bad-boy will light you on fire, in a way that the earnest CPA who cares enough to iron his shirt and show up on time won’t. But who do you want to try and build a life with?

Finding Something Better Than a Chemistry.Sparks burn out quite quickly; what you want in a relationship are coals. They may not be as easy to recognize but they build a much stronger flame that lasts a lot longer